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I have tried to update multipule times… just doesnt work, nothing happens in itunes or on my phone after the update… i have valuble stuff on my phone and i havent backed it up… i dont want to loose it throught restore… what do i do? how do i connect my iphone to itunes without a restore?

It’s not possible. Apple designed it that way on purpose to prevent data theft. The data is already lost with no way to recover.