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After disassembling the Mac Mini with the iFix guide to replace the HD …no fault to iFix it. used the small plastic tool to remove the HD and optical connector the HD connector ripped off the PCB. See Pic Help?! Anyone know the name of that connector?? http://homepage.mac.com/casaandy/MacMini…
If i remember correctly my tech guide says thats a HDD connection.